Thundering Rhythms

The Spring of River Ems (Schloß Holte-Stukenbrock)

This spring is the beginning of a 371 km long river.


Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld


Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld


Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld



infjperspective:

“When you attract a partner at your lowest point, you are attracting a partner who finds your low-point desirable. This is not ideal.”

— Michele O’Mara, PhD

I don’t know about that. I suppose, it will return to O’mara’s definition of ‘lowest’ point. IMO, lowest point doesn’t always mean that we are on our worst behaviour or on the brink of self-destruction. It could, and I think, it should be interpreted when we hit the bottom, emotionally or financially.

To find a partner at our peak is easy, because we spread good aura, confidence, success and love (or even beauty). Who doesn’t want (or isn’t attracted to) all of those?

I believe, in our moment of desperation, depression, out of luck and out of time, that’s when one’s true personality shines. It could be good; it could be bad. But that’s when one is not bothered to wear any mask. I also believe, that is the time where people, who call themselves ‘friends’ are indeed friends.

The thing about the quote that bothers me is, it seems to ignore or not aware about the situation of many ‘on lowest point’ people, who can’t find or do not dare to try to find partners or acquaintances, who might be able to lift them up or to help them change the situation only because it is considered as ‘not ideal’.

What is an ‘ideal’ (partner/relationship), anyway?


Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld


Lazing….

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

(Doing them while listening to “Lazing on A Sunday Afternoon” (Queen). I like the atmosphere in the song. Seems to fit in with the pics).


Brown Wolf
Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Brown Wolf

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld


Brown wolf
Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld

Brown wolf

Location: Heimat Tierpark Olderdissen, Bielefeld


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